Sugar relationships are supposed to be a fantasy away from the drama of love or feelings. This was however not the case with me because I got attached to my sugar daddy. He was married but still a gentleman. He was caring, generous and he travelled a lot so I travelled with him. He would give me money without complaining or ask a lot of questions. I found myself getting attached to my sugar daddy just months into the sugar dating scene. It is very easy to fall for an older man because he is mature and very responsible.
I know that being a sugar baby means that it is just fun times and no commitment. I know that I should care for him, and enjoy each others company but this can turn into feeling. My sugar daddy was married and I definitely didn’t want drama myself. I just wanted to meet people who would help my acting career and get some money from my sugar daddy. When I felt like I was getting attached to my sugar daddy I knew that I was doing something wrong as a sugar baby. Getting attached to my sugar daddy was never the plan but we all know that not everything goes according to plan.
I would call him more than we had agreed and this was not cool. Sugar dating is meant to be a discrete relationship but when I got attached to my sugar daddy all that changed. I wanted to spend more time with him and even found myself feeling a little bit jealous at times. Getting attached to my sugar daddy definitely changed our relationship and not in a good way. He started feeling insecure about our relationship and sort of started avoiding me in a way. I have heard stories of sugar babies who fell in love with their sugar daddies and they ended up being married. I, however, knew that that wouldn’t be the case for me. We had made it very clear in our agreement that it was a No Strings Attached relationship.
I would advise sugar babies not to get attached to their sugar daddies because it doesn’t end well in most cases. I ended up having an acting career because he introduced me to a very famous producer which am grateful for. I just wonder how much more he could have done for me if I didn’t chase away him by getting attached to my sugar daddy. Sugar daddies just want something fun and casual to take the stress from their minds.